Stop Complaining

Have you ever noticed that in life we meet people who complain about anything and everything?

When was the last time you complained about something that was either trivial or not?

What I would challenge you to do is sit in the lobby of any hospital and watch the people entering or exiting the facility the next time you feel like complaining.

How do we look at life?

This is not a rhetorical question; it’s a question for you to decide where you are going and whether you are accepting your lot in life.

Having said that, my heart is heavy once again as I receive notifications about the deaths of two people whom I knew who recently passed away.

These are people that I knew personally and witnessed them adding value to others.

How we make the most of our time here on this earth is up to us.

This goes for gossip as well.

I’m reminded of James 3:5 and the “Taming of the Tongue,” where I learned years ago to let things go.

When I received the meaning behind James 3:5, I was told to ask three questions:

Is it true, is it kind, is it necessary?

In response to the three questions, should the person continue speaking only if they can say “yes” to all three?

James 3:5 In the same way, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it boasts of great things. Consider how small a spark sets a great forest ablaze.

Persons/Places/Events

James
The author of the epistle, traditionally identified as James, the brother of Jesus. He was a leader in the early Jerusalem church and wrote to Jewish Christians scattered among the nations.

The Tongue
A metaphorical reference to human speech and the power of words. In this context, it represents the potential for both good and harm.

The Body
Represents the whole person, emphasizing how a small part (the tongue) can influence the entire being.

The Spark
A metaphor for a small action or word that can lead to significant consequences, much like a tiny flame can ignite a large fire.

The Forest
Symbolizes the broader community or world, illustrating how words can have far-reaching effects.

This past week, Toastmasters International announced an increase in membership dues from $60 to $72 for the six-month dues renewal fee effective August 3, 2026.

Just years ago, when it went from $30 to $45 to $60, now, on August 3, 2026, to $72, I’m sure there will be members unwilling to pay the dues increase.

For some, it will be “The Spark” that ignites a large fire among other members.

I witnessed it coming based on what happened when Membership dues increased on August 1, 2023 (from $45 to $60 semiannually).

Of course, the August 2023 change was the last time the core membership dues were adjusted, with the 2025 new member fee increase being the most recent fee-related update. New member fee increase: October 1, 2025 (from $20 to $25).

I’m telling you this as only an example of the spark that can ignite a larger flame. You can’t even imagine the people who complained three years ago and how they voiced their feelings of dissatisfaction.

Everyone has something to complain about; however, is it worth it?

We have choices in life: accept our lot or change it.

I won’t get into what the Bible says; however, we should accept and rejoice in what we have been given.

Hence, as an advocate for developing greater emotional intelligence, choosing to change requires self-awareness, courage, and deliberate action.

It also requires discernment. That’s what I learned from reading the Bible.

Every day is a choice, and complaining about it is not the answer.

Therefore, on this day, if you’re complaining about something, is it worth the emotional stress, or can you just let it go?

Besides, we’ve all heard the phrase Why complain? It does go anyway.

How we downplay it is totally up to us.

Therefore, we should just be grateful and rejoice in what we have been given.

I’ll give you two quotes to think about this week:

“You don’t make progress by standing on the sidelines, whimpering and complaining. You make progress by implementing ideas.” – Shirley Chisholm

“Never tell your problems and complaints to anyone; twenty percent don’t care, and the other eighty percent are glad you have them.” – Lou Holtz

Today, I challenge you to ask the question the next time you feel like complaining: Is it worth it? Give yourself 24 hours to think about it. If not, think about taking a trip to your local hospital and sitting in the hospital lobby that I mentioned earlier.

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/stop-complaining/

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The Scars We Hide and Those We Don’t

Allow me to ask you a question:  Have you ever heard the words “What doesn’t kill you will make you stronger”?

This famous saying comes from the German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche, who wrote in his 1888 book Twilight of the Idols.

What Doesn’t Kill You, Makes You Stronger Meaning: What Does It Mean? – English Study Online

Although I’ve spent many years in Germany, I was unaware.

As a product of the Civil Rights Movement and a Baby Boomer, I grew up with parents who didn’t believe in sparing the rod.

There are various versions of Proverbs 13:24, tied to sparing the rod depending on how you feel; I’m sure one of them suits you best.

Proverbs 13:24 He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.

Today, we know that what happens to children who misbehave or do not listen to their parents is different from what it was in the past.

I don’t consider myself someone who misbehaved, but someone who obviously didn’t understand what I was told to do.

Sometimes I took those whippings for the team.

I recently burned myself about a month ago, taking something out of the oven. The burn was not visible on the front of my arm, but on the back of my forearm, which was hidden from those approaching me from the front.

Although I didn’t see the scar until two days later, I felt it for days after the event.

As I think about the scars we hide, I’m always concerned about the scars we don’t see.

Just like my burn that showed up after the fact. I didn’t see it right off; it took it forming properly for me to see it.

Every day, when I walk into places like Walmart or other places where I must navigate past people, I look at their faces.

Each person has a different façade they bring to the marketplace.

Granted, I didn’t grow up with a silver spoon in my mouth and have lived all over the world after my high school graduation.

It was in those lessons of understanding responsibility, where my parents, who didn’t believe in sparing the rod if one of my siblings got hurt or I didn’t obey, helped make me stronger.

There is a time and a place for everything, and luckily, I had great mentors in the military who shared their wisdom.

But what about our youth today- who’s giving them the guidance and wisdom required to be more disciplined in life?

Many years ago, I was required to study Sigmund Freud as part of my Clinical Mental Health Counseling program to understand the Id, Ego, and Superego.

Maybe that is why the scars we hide and those we don’t are what my unconscious mind is thinking about today.

Freud’s Theory of the Unconscious Mind: The Iceberg Analogy

We don’t know what the surface is until we trigger something, and then it’s up to us to react either in the Id, ego, or superego.

One of the things I’m most proud of is my patience as I write in my journal when I need to exercise better self-control.

Although I know the scars that I had to go through to get to a point in my life, many don’t see the scars because there’s an analogy of not keeping good records of bad things that resonates within me.

Don’t Keep Records of Bad Things – Mckinleys

This week is my reminder that “The Scars We Hide and Those We Don’t” are real, and it’s a matter of letting go of things that can rob you of your joy.

Frank Sinatra has said, “Don’t hide your scars. They make you who you are.”

All those people whom I see with frowns on their faces that I mentioned in places such as Walmart or other places where I must navigate past people, this is why I look at their faces.

“Live your life in such a way that you’ll be remembered for your kindness, compassion, fairness, character, benevolence, and a force for good who had much respect for life, in general.”  ― Germany Kent

“No matter how dysfunctional your background, how broke or broken you are, where you are today, or what anyone else says, YOU MATTER, and your life matters!”  ― Germany Kent

Today, I challenge you to put a smile on your face, because someone else is in a worse shape than you.

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What Makes Our Leadership Development Coaching Different from the Rest?

I spent 30 years in active-duty service, leading soldiers through some of the most demanding environments imaginable. When I retired, I carried a second title into civilian life as a GS-13 in federal service, closing out that chapter on January 31, 2019, after 14 more years of leading people toward mission success. Folks around here know me as McKinley, but most call me Charlie Mike — CM for short, a term that in military circles means "continue mission." That's exactly what I've done since hanging up the uniform: continued the mission of building better leaders, one person and one organization at a time.

Real Experience, Not Just Theory

There's no shortage of coaching programs out there promising to transform your team overnight. What sets my approach apart is simple — I've actually lived it. For three decades, I was responsible for the readiness, morale, and performance of people whose decisions had real consequences. I didn't learn leadership from a textbook; I learned it in the field, under pressure, and through 44 combined years of watching what works and what doesn't. When you work with a Leadership Development Coach who has genuinely led at every level, from junior soldiers to senior leadership, you get insight that's grounded in experience rather than theory alone.

A Program Built Around the Whole Leader

My coaching isn't a one-size-fits-all seminar. I structure development around the real skills leaders need to succeed: emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, performance measurement, team building, communication, resiliency, and crisis leadership. Each module is designed to meet leaders exactly where they are, whether they're a first-time supervisor or an executive steering a large organization. As a certified Maxwell Leadership coach, trainer, and speaker, I blend proven leadership frameworks with the discipline and adaptability I developed through military and civil service. That combination is rare, and it's what allows me to speak to both the technical side of leadership and the human side — because leadership, at its core, is about people.

Coaching That's Personal, Not Generic

Too many leadership programs treat every client the same way. I don't. Every organization has its own culture, its own challenges, and its own definition of success. My coaching sessions, workshops, and mastermind groups are built around your specific goals, whether that's improving conflict resolution among your team, sharpening decision-making under pressure, or developing the next generation of leaders inside your company. I take the time to understand where you are and where you want to go, then I build a plan to get you there — not a generic slideshow, but a genuine partnership focused on measurable growth.

Accountability Rooted in Discipline

If there's one thing three decades of service taught me, it's accountability. I don't just deliver a workshop and walk away. I check in, I follow up, and I hold the people I coach to the standards they set for themselves. That's what a serious Leadership Development Coach should do — stay engaged in your progress long after the initial session ends. Growth doesn't happen in a single meeting; it happens through consistent reinforcement, honest feedback, and a coach who is invested in your long-term success, not just a one-time transaction.

Leadership That Rises Above the Noise

My philosophy is straightforward: rise above your limits. Whether I'm coaching an individual working through a career transition, training a corporate team on communication and productivity, or speaking to a room full of professionals about resilience, the goal is always the same — equip people with the tools to lead with confidence, clarity, and purpose. That's not a marketing slogan for me. It's the same standard I held myself to in uniform and in federal service, and it's the standard I bring to every client relationship today.

If your organization is ready to move beyond generic training and invest in leadership development that's built on real experience, genuine accountability, and a track record of results, let's talk. Reach out today at (706) 627-4863 to schedule a consultation, and let's start building the kind of leaders your team can count on — because the mission continues, and I'm ready to help you lead it forward.

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There's no single universally agreed-upon version of the "5 C's," but the most commonly cited framework centers on Character, Competence, Communication, Courage, and Compassion.

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Faith

Today, I’m reflecting on the word’s faith the size of a mustard seed.

What is it that we believe?

It’s not so much about the various faiths we belong to. it’s about the things we put our faith in every day.

Recently, my doorbell rang, and to my surprise, there were about four other couples, all elderly black women and men, walking the neighborhood.

The opening question I was asked is “How am I dealing with the current situation in the world, with all that continues to divide us?”

It was an open question that I felt the need to ask them to come inside for a minute and offer them some water.

Little did I know my faith and knowledge were tested by what they both presented to me under Mosaic law and what I believed after going through the book of Galatians and the new covenant.

As a person of faith and somewhat familiar with the Bible, we talked about the new covenant under Jesus rather than Moses.

Although it was truly a learning experience for all, they wanted to come back and visit, which I said yes to if I were home again when they rang my doorbell.

This got me thinking about how faith can plant a seed in a ministry as they walked the neighborhood expressing their faith to others.

Today, each of us puts our faith in many different things.

We want our children to see our faith in us as we practice living a life filled with grace and mercy.

I’m aware we should all be a living letter as stated in the Bible.

“Are we beginning to commend ourselves again? Or do we need, like some, letters of recommendation to you or from you? 2 You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by everyone. 3 You show that you are Christ’s letter, delivered[a] by us, not written with ink but with the Spirit of the living God—not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts.”

2 Corinthians 3-4 CSB – Living Letters – Are we beginning to – Bible Gateway

In life, we sometimes take things for granted and accept them as they are.

One of my responses to the Jehovah’s Witnesses team was that it’s the same God today as it was yesterday.

I was pleased to see that faith works in mysterious ways, as President Trump’s bill (the Save America Act) didn’t pass, with four Republicans voting against it.

This is not the first time we have had senators from President Donald Trump’s party join Democrats.

If you recall, it was his “One Big Beautiful Bill,” which narrowly passed the upper chamber with a tie-breaking vote from Vice President J.D. Vance.

We saw this with four Republicans joining Democrats in the House vote to rein in Trump’s Iran war powers.

I often wonder what families are saying to their children, or what others are thinking out loud, when going against the norm, as we witnessed this past week.

I’m also thinking about what happened this past weekend at the Hilton Garden Inn Montgomery – East Chase in Montgomery, AL, which I couldn’t attend, based on other commitments, was our 53rd Biennial Gulf Coast District Junior Conference, sponsored by the Knights of Peter Claver and Ladies Auxiliary.

I’m reminded of the phrase as we help our children grow in faith.  “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

Many of the Junior Knights and Junior Daughters, when they reach the age of 18, officially join the Knights of Peter Claver and the Ladies Auxiliary.

Proverbs 22:6 – Bible Gateway

I must believe that people will do the right thing for the right reason.

I read a quote from Max Lucado that says, “Faith is not the belief that God will do what you want.  It is the belief that God will do what is right.”

That is faith within itself.

I’m sure also that many who watched the price of gas go down this week had faith it wouldn’t go any higher.

This past Friday, I also received an email from one of my Catholic Brother Knights in Georgia, stating that one of our Brother Knights was receiving his last rites from the Priest.

Four hours later, I received another call saying that he had passed away.

It’s that faith I wonder about as well when we know death is imminent.

Each of us has taken the faith when we seek employment for the right job, and the faith that we will find another job when the employer decides to let us go.

I’ll wrap this up by saying that I never relented my faith when the family hadn’t heard from my older sister, and the relief it was when she appeared two years later.

Yes, we must have faith in the size of a mustard seed in times like these.

I’m a firm believer that everything is temporary.

Finally, just like the farmer who continues to plant his corn and cotton fields around me each year, he has faith that his crops will grow.

The farmer can’t see the seed working and must have faith in the process.

When I planted my yearly Mexican Roses a month ago, I could not see the roots taking hold until two weeks later, with little green sprouts popping through the soil.

Last year, one Rose appeared; this year, there is a 100% difference this year, with everything popping through the soil.

It is faith that it’s the same God yesterday as it is tomorrow.

Faith is believing in what you cannot see and trusting in what you hope for.

“Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” — Hebrews 11:1

“For nothing will be impossible with God.” — Luke 1:37

Today, take a moment and reflect on your faith. What’s your faith story running in the background of your mind that you tell yourself today, that you are leaving to all mighty?

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/faith/

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We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude

This week, I had an epiphany about all the things I or we take for granted.

As I was standing in line at Walmart, something was unusually different.

It just so happened that all traffic for those waiting for check-out was limited, with only two check-out lanes open.

As I walked past the first group, there were at least 10 people in each line.

Finally, after about ten minutes, management decided to open the three closed kiosks and check-out lanes.

What a blessing that was.

The line disappeared within seconds, even though at least 12 kiosks were open for transactions.

Sometimes, when we’re in a hurry and think it’s going to be a quick turnaround, it isn’t.

In that moment, I thought about how automated we have become.

Even as we prepare for our Zoom meeting, we take for granted that our computers will be okay in the middle of a storm, until the power goes out.

We can’t predict the weather or what happens in grocery stores; however, we can be more cognizant about our surroundings.

I’m always amazed at how, some days, I can wake up without an ache or pain, and then the next day, something changes and reminds me that life is full of curveballs.

Speaking of curveballs, I was thrown one last Wednesday when the recycling people skipped my house.  I heard the truck at about 4 PM and noticed it was going around me.

Around 6 PM, I saw the truck return again; this time, it was across the street, and I thought it was going to turn at the corner and head to the other side.

Sometime around 9 PM, after checking to see if it was emptied to bring it in, it was still full.

It was at that moment that I said I couldn’t take the small things for granted when the recycling people skipped my house.

I know that last Monday, I couldn’t take things for granted, even though I’d bought a ticket weeks ago to attend the Moth in Birmingham.  Unfortunately, the weather warnings were telling me to stay home, which I did.

It just so happened that the city was under a Tornado watch, and I didn’t want to take things for granted.  It stormed up until 8 PM

The Moth StorySLAM is an open-mic storytelling competition where anyone can share a true, personal 5-minute story on the night’s theme.

The Moth in Birmingham: REVENGE

I’ve learned to count my blessings and be grateful at the same time.

This past week, I’ve taken in many lessons about taking things for granted, while having a few curveballs being thrown along the way.

What about you?

I’ve learned over the years, and not just this week, that our health is something I took for granted when I was young, thinking I was 30 and bulletproof.

It’s not until we get thrown that curveball that we’re reminded we are not the same person and are now older.

Today, I challenge you to take a moment to reflect on those many lessons about taking things for granted, while having a few curveballs being thrown your way.

When you take things for granted, you diminish their importance and may even jeopardize their very existence. – Frank Sonnenberg

Happiness is a simple game of lost and found: Lose the things you take for granted, and you will feel great happiness once they are found. – Richelle E. Goodrich

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/we-often-take-for-granted-the-very-things-that-most-deserve-our-gratitude/

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Education Rankings in the United States

We are now somewhat out of school for the summer, yet I still see school buses running in my neighborhood each morning.

Have you ever thought about what your state’s educational rankings are?

As commercials continue to run for those seeking public offices, I heard this past Thursday that Alabama is 43^rd in the nation.

I had to verify the information immediately, and it’s true.

I knew that education would be a challenge this year due to the current administration’s dismantling of various education offices.

Why are those school buses still running, and what are we expecting our teachers to teach the world’s future leaders?

Today, television and social media have diminished learning.

I can remember my parents unplugging the television or not watching any television until my homework was completed and checked.

I also remember how “C’s” were not allowed in our home.

They expected us to thrive and not survive.

Today, I wonder what the Bell Curve is for receiving a B.

I’m currently in the latter part of a Toastmasters’ eight-week Youth Leadership Program.  I can visibly see how students are feeling the pressure of high school.

They were worried about finals and the end-of-year test weeks ago.

As one with a master’s in education, my thoughts are not far from the book I read titled “The Global Achievement Gap,” Why even our best schools don’t teach the new survival skills our children need and what we can do about it, by Tony Wagner.

The Global Achievement Gap was a required reading for leaders during my time as a Department of Defense Civilian training soldiers.

I’m aware that high school students are not soldiers; however, many will join the military or further their education.

The sad part is that many of these students will become parents with few skills to assist their children.

The teachers today must have a passion for their profession and not see it as just a paycheck.

A few months ago, I was also looking into visiting the Board of Education, which is another project I am working on in the background.

It’s about how I can assist teachers in passing the National Board for Professional Teaching Standards certification and the Modules.

National Board Certification (NBC) is the highest teaching credential in the U.S., offered by the National Board for Professional Teaching Standards (NBPTS). It is designed to identify, honor, and support teachers who meet rigorous standards for teaching excellence.

NBPTS Main Site Certification – NBPTS Main Site

As mentioned, Alabama is ranked 43rd in the nation.  The “Public School Rankings by State 2026” is in the link below so that you can see where your state ranks.

Public School Rankings by State 2026

I’m humbled to see New York as number one because I went to grade school at PS 104 in Brooklyn many years ago.  It was evident then that education was important and that when our family returned home to Virginia, I was ahead of my peers.

Some things never change, or do they?

Today, I challenge you to take a moment to reflect on your education and how you are helping others achieve the American Dream.

“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.” — Nelson Mandela

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” — Mahatma Gandhi emphasizes lifelong learning and the urgency of knowledge.

“I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.” — Mark Twain highlights the difference between formal schooling and true learning.

“The roots of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet.” — Aristotle reminds us that effort in learning yields lasting rewards.

“Education is not preparation for life; education is life itself.” — John Dewey stresses that learning is an ongoing, integral part of living.

“Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.” — Robert Frost highlights the role of education in cultivating patience and critical thinking.

All these quotes reflect the power, purpose, and philosophy of education, inspiring both students and educators to value knowledge, critical thinking, and personal growth. Each can be used for motivation, classroom discussions, or personal reflection on the lifelong journey of learning.

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/education-rankings-in-the-united-states/

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Six Degrees of Separation

Earlier this week, I had the opportunity to celebrate Juneteenth.

For many, that word doesn’t mean much because some don’t understand the history behind why we, as people of color, celebrate Juneteenth in June.

I only wish our younger generation had the opportunities I had in school.

I titled today’s blog “Six Degrees of Separation” after the people I met at this year’s Juneteenth celebrations.

The first was meeting a classmate of mine from the United States Army Sergeants Major Academy (USAMA).

I met my classmate through a conversation about our shared status as Command Sergeants Major.

It wasn’t until he asked me to validate my age by asking for my class number.

When I said Class 41, his eyes lit up because it was a connection to yes, I know you now, and validated my presence.

Class 41 was the last six-month resident class, from January 1993 to July 1993, before the class went to a nine-month resident class.

On July 27, 2026, they will welcome Class 77!

Resident Students

Not only were he and I graduates of the First Sergeant Course, but we were also graduates of the same learning institution (USAMA).

There are not many of us left who have attended both of these courses.  The First Sergeant Course helped me become a better First Sergeant and improve my writing.

I’m sure many of us know the power of a red pen.

I’m always impressed when I have a connection or make a NEXUS through six degrees of separation.

For those who read, I would recommend reading Nexus: Small Worlds and the Groundbreaking Science of Networks by Mark Buchanan. (Author).

Once you read it, you’ll understand the power of networks, weak and strong ties.

I first learned the word and its meaning behind “Nexus” during my Starfish Training in 2010, when I was required to read Nexus: Small Worlds and the Groundbreaking Science of Networks by Mark Buchanan.

Speaking of Six Degrees of Separation, I met a gentleman during the Huntsville, AL (Juneteenth Celebration) wearing a B-52 Bomber hat.   Ironically, he and I spoke about the Boeing B-52 Stratofortress, which crashed on Monday (June 15, 2026) shortly after takeoff.

Little did I know he was first a Navy Sailor, then joined the Air Force, retiring as a Major and a B-52 Bomber. The connection brought him back to show me pictures in uniform for both services or branches.

I am always humbled when I meet interesting people with interesting stories about the military.

I wrote in my journal that week how grateful I was to have met him and to have taken the time to start a conversation after seeing him in his B-52 hat at the Huntsville, VA Clinic.

Finally, I attended a Juneteenth Celebration in Pass Christian, Mississippi, where I met an Atlanta Falcons cheerleader who was the granddaughter of someone with a rich legacy in Pass Christian.  Long story short, her grandfather and I have shared meals, and he has even been in my home here in Alabama.

I also have a Soldier whose daughter is also an Atlanta Falcon Cheerleader.  His daughter is in her fifth year, and the granddaughter I met is in her fourth year as an Atlanta Falcon Cheerleader.

Each year, they must try out to remain an Atlanta Falcon Cheerleader.

I connected the two of them by sharing a picture, and they connected as well.

In life, we never know the people connected to us until divine intervention occurs.

As a final piece to this blog, I was introduced to reading for pleasure this past weekend, Dr. Eddie S. Glaude Jr.’s book on America, U.S.A.

Dr. Eddie S. Glaude Jr.’s book on America, U.S.A., was read over Father’s Day Weekend as part of my Juneteenth Celebration. It was an interesting read and one that made me reflect deeply on my place in America.

I would never have known about this book had I not connected with a gentleman who not only reads my blogs and responses but is also a member of an organization we both support, the scholarship committee for the Jordan J. Corbett 555^th Parachute Infantry Regiment, located in Tampa, Florida, known as the “Triple Nickels.”

On March 26, 2026, we connected in Tampa, Florida, during our Scholarship program, and we continue to stay connected through different levels of intellectual conversations.  I consider him a strong tie!

We meet people every day we can add to our network. Who have you met this past week to add to yours?

Here’s something to think about, as some of you may know who Kevin Bacon is, but may not know how it’s tied to six degrees of separation.

Six degrees of separation | plus.maths.org

Today, I challenge you to take a moment to reflect on all the connections you know and the people who are both weak and strong ties.

“Six degrees of separation doesn’t mean that everyone is linked to everyone else in just six steps. It means that a very small number of people are linked to everyone else in a few steps, and the rest of us are linked to the world through those special few.”~ Malcolm Gladwell

“I read somewhere that everybody on this planet is separated by only six other people. Six degrees of separation between us and everyone else on this planet. The President of the United States, a gondolier in Venice, just fill in the names. I find it extremely comforting that we’re so close. I also find it like Chinese water torture, that we’re so close because you have to find the right six people to make the right connection… I am bound, you are bound, to everyone on this planet by a trail of six people.” ~ John Guare

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/six-degrees-of-separation/

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Inconspicuous Place

Have you ever had something right in front of your eyes that was so surreal once you were able to recognize what it was?

It was placed in an inconspicuous place in the outer room of the bedroom, behind the couch, with my back to it.

This is what happened to me on May 25, 2026, which was Memorial Day 2026.

I was in a hotel, about to head home from a retirement party that I attended the night before, when it appeared.

I was as if I had seen this before, but didn’t pay attention until my spirit inside of me said look again, and this time open your eyes.

The picture was a replica of a three-panel canvas of the Lynching Memorial at the National Memorial for Peace and Justice by Equal Justice Initiative (EJI) in Montgomery, Alabama, hanging on the wall of my suite. No pun intended.

It represented the names of those who were lynched years ago, as I could somewhat make out the Counties of the names at the bottom.

“EJI researchers documented 4,075 racial terror lynchings of African Americans in Alabama, Arkansas, Florida, Georgia, Kentucky, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, and Virginia between 1877 and 1950—at least 800 more lynchings of Black people in these states than previously reported in the most comprehensive work done on lynching to date.”

“The lynching of African Americans was terrorism, a widely supported campaign to enforce racial subordination and segregation. Lynching in America documents more than 4,400 racial terror lynchings in the United States during the period between Reconstruction and World War II.”

Lynching in America

I took a moment of silence to honor what I saw and reflect on it during my visit to the National Memorial for Peace and Justice (Equal Justice Initiative) in Montgomery, Alabama.

As I took a moment to ask myself why this is in the hotel, I wondered if I might be able to purchase a replica for my home to tell the story.

I’m sure many who stayed in this particular suite had no idea what the picture or the collage of the three canvases represented.

However, I knew exactly what it was based on my recent visits over the last three years.

Knowing that I was physically in Montgomery, Alabama; however, I would have loved to see literature explaining why it was in the room and where they could see the real thing.

I won’t mention the name of the hotel, as I’m sure I will stay there again at some point and request that suite if available.

The fact that I was able to see this picture, a three-part image on canvas of The National Memorial for Peace and Justice (Equal Justice Initiative), Montgomery, Alabama, still amazes me that I clearly recognized what I was seeing.

Now, after seeing that image, I wonder what else has been in front of my eyes that I was blind to see?

Knowing that this image is rarely spoken about, particularly in the day and age we live in, with lynching being so prominent in the South.

Lynchings in the South were a form of racial terror used to enforce white supremacy, primarily targeting African Americans from the post-Civil War era through the mid-20th century.

“White Americans used lynching to terrorize and control Black people in the 19th and early 20th centuries. Learn more about the history of this barbaric practice and how the NAACP worked to end lynching.”

History of Lynching in America | NAACP

If you have never visited any of the museums, memorials, or monuments associated with the Equal Justice Initiative in Montgomery, Alabama, I highly recommend you do so.  I spent hours there.

The Legacy Museum – The Legacy Sites

What the picture really represented was the ultimate form of what Dr. Koritha Mitchell calls “Know your place aggression.”

3.9 Koritha Mitchell on Coming to Terms with Know Your Place Aggression.pdf

Today, I challenge you to take a moment to reflect on the places you have visited and how well you understood what you saw.  What might you deem an “Inconspicuous Place”

“All the secrets of the world worth knowing are hiding in plain sight.”  ~ Robin Sloan

“There is an old saying: If you want to hide the treasure, put it in plain sight. Then no one will see it.”  ~ Larry Dossey

“The way to right wrongs is to turn the light of truth on them.”  ~ Ida B. Wells

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/inconspicuous-place/

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Rhetoric

This week, as many states across America continue to prepare for upcoming elections, one word keeps resonating in my mind as I watch the campaigning.

That one word is “Rhetoric.”

You might use a different word that comes to mind as we watch candidates berate each other.

Whatever happened to being kind to one another?

As one who speaks professionally and aspires to be better, if it’s one word, I know it’s “Rhetoric.”

I would rather have a meaningful conversation in all that I do!

I fully understand that I live in a Red State here in Alabama, and I have the choice to either listen to or reject what is said on television.

As someone who tries to watch it sparingly, I often wonder about the values openly expressed on television.

I hear things about a Politician “Toten” and “Still Toten” as it relates to gun laws.

We have so much gun violence that one can assume it doesn’t matter.

I hear things about blasting people and putting them in the electric chair.

What is even more interesting is how all these people reference President Trump to make sure you know which party they are endorsed by.

Granted, we have the First Amendment, which protects freedom of speech, and the Second Amendment, which protects the right to bear arms.

However, some have taken it to an extreme.

I was curious about how many people involved in the January 6, 2021; insurrection have received a pardon from President Trump.

“Trump’s first action after returning to the White House was pardoning about 1,500 people who were convicted in connection with the January 6 attack that saw a mob of his supporters storm the Capitol in a bid to stop the certification of Joe Biden’s 2020 election victory and keep Trump in power. He commuted the sentences of another 14 people, including leaders of the Oath Keepers and the Proud Boys.”

Full List of January 6 Prisoners Released by Trump – Newsweek

My first thought is that these are “Criminals” who have violated the Constitution of the United States.

Moreover, I know it’s only going to get worse all the way to the elections and the polls, with voter rights affected.

Maybe you enjoy all the rhetoric around you, and that’s okay.

What I don’t enjoy is seeing the fabric of America pulled apart and how the landscape has changed.

I’m still going to do my part and vote; however, I’m also aware that campaigning is not cheap.

Every commercial that runs on television costs money, and as they say, “the squeaky wheel gets the grease.”

I know in contrast to the Japanese proverb, “The stake that sticks up gets hammered down”, or “The nail that stands out gets pounded down,”

Therefore, we are now in a culture where you can use as much rhetoric as your pocket or your conscience can afford.

Today, as you go about your business this week, I challenge you to take a moment to listen to what people are saying and how they say it.  Are the words being used kind or true?

There are many wise sayings, but here are two to think about:

“Rhetoric is the art of ruling the minds of men.” – Plato

“Rhetoric is nothing but reason well dressed and argument put in order.” – Jeremy Collier

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/rhetoric/

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Your Litmus Test

On this day, as we celebrate, I’m humbled to have served and honor those service members who have died in military service to our nation.

For them, the “Litmus test” was courage.

I’m honored to have visited and walked the Normandy American Cemetery and Memorial for those who died in the Normandy landings and the Battle of Normandy.

A powerful phrase, “All gave some, some gave all,” honors the sacrifices of military service members as it recognizes that everyone contributes, but some make the ultimate sacrifice.

This past week, I had an epiphany of what many people would call a “Litmus Test” after having an opportunity to vote in local state elections.

I realized many years ago that freedom isn’t free, especially for those considered to have given their lives in defense of it.

The emphasis behind the words of “Litmus Test” was confirmed in my mind early Saturday morning, May 23, 2026, when I witnessed a woman about 30 years old on a two-wheeled pink scooter balancing a gas can while waiting for the traffic signal to turn green in the turning lane opposite me.

I felt sorry for her when her actions and circumstances didn’t go in the positive direction she expected.

As the light changed to green, she not only dropped the gas can, spilling gas on the road, but she also created an accident waiting to happen.

The two cars behind had to navigate around her while dealing with her environmentally hazardous spill.

In my mind, she failed the litmus test of driving a scooter while balancing a small gas can with the spout attached.

What was she thinking that she could balance and drive with both hands at the same time? She had to let the can drop or get run over.

Surely, she hadn’t thought it through.

If I were a local Sheriff or Police officer, she would have been fined immediately.

As for the local state elections, I thought to myself: Why is voter turnout so low, and what does it take to get people to vote?

I thought about what the litmus test was for our Alabama lawmakers to redraw congressional districts.

Having some data from previous elections, I’m fully aware that the black vote is critical in Alabama, yet despite getting people to the polls, it continues to be a major challenge.

Each of us has our own litmus test for what success might look like in any area of our lives.

Yet year after year, voting remains an issue among people of color as boundary lines are redrawn across the state.

Supreme Court clears path for Alabama to redraw congressional map – CBS News

“The new lines in House Districts 1, 2, 6, and 7 will only matter if the Supreme Court allows Alabama to redistrict.”

Having personally supported Representative Terri Sewell (District 7) in the past through her annual Job Fair, which she conducts each year, I’m sure there is a litmus test for what success looks like, as it’s her largest constituent event of the year.

“The state plans to revert to Legislature-drawn maps for both congressional districts (2023) and state senate districts (2021). If Alabama adopts the 2023 map, it would go from two majority-Black congressional districts back to one, a shift that directly imperils the seats held by Sewell and Figures.”

Supreme Court Lets Alabama Redraw Maps, Threatens Dem Seats

Not that I even want to be in politics or talk politics; it’s interesting to me, since moving to Alabama, how redrawing lines can affect voters and the outcome of future elections.

In my opinion, there is a push to go backward instead of forward.

Not that I’m a betting man, I’m sure there was a litmus test being conducted on how all parties did both good and bad.

I’m also aware that, leading up to the recent state elections, last week, watching or listening to commercials, that family values were important to younger voters.

Most U.S. parents pass on their religion and politics to their kids | Pew Research Center

Whether teachers want to admit it or not, the curricula taught in schools are either a hindrance or a support to understanding that the Government is probably slanted towards one particular party.

How Families and Algorithms Influence Youth Politics

I believe that by November 2026, we will see the results of my litmus test, and it probably won’t be a surprise.

Take a moment to think about the various litmus tests you have undergone over the years.

LITMUS TEST Definition & Meaning – Merriam-Webster

It can be said that “What We Value in Ourselves We Use as A Litmus Test to Judge Others.”

A Litmus Test to Determine Character | by CW Ethridge, Just Figuring It Out | Medium

What is that litmus test you are running in the background of your mind that you tell yourself today, I can do a specific task.

It was easy for me as I loved being a Soldier and sacrificing 30 years of my life in that occupation, putting my life on the line for the freedom of others.

Maybe telling yourself today that you’ll go to church this week, exercise, or even get up early. We all have names for the litmus test we are running in the background of our minds.

Here are two quotes about the litmus test for you to ponder today.

“Most often, qualifications are defined by the credentials of the person who last held the job. If that is to continue to be the litmus test, white males will continue to be the top choice on any list if the interviewer is also a white male.”  Madeleine M. Kunin

“For me, the litmus test to know whether or not I’m doing the right thing is to examine whether my decisions are love-based or fear-based.”  Robert Gant

Today, take a moment and reflect on the words “What We Value in Ourselves We Use as A Litmus Test to Judge Others.”  What was the last litmus test you took part in that was a key decision you had to make?

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/your-litmus-test/

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Reflections

This past weekend (May 1-3, 2026), I attended one of my annual conferences.

It was our 78^th Gulf Coast District Conference in Hoover, Alabama, hosted by Zone Four of the Knights of Peter Claver and Ladies Auxiliary.

The theme was “Claverism and the Holy Spirit-The Force That Moves You.”

Ironically, each morning or evening, our Chaplain offered a reflection during our prayer services.

For me, it was the Saturday morning prayer service that he asked us to think about what percentage of “Faith” we have tied to our religion.

What was interesting was that he told us that none of us in the room is 100 percent reliant on our faith.

He went on to use a grade card, saying that 75% would be like a “C” in school.

This allowed me to reflect even more deeply, knowing that many of us, me included, rarely received a “C” in anything.

Therefore, today I must ask you have you ever thought about what is the percentage of faith tied to your religion?

As you look at your own scorecard, think about the last time you faced challenges and setbacks.

Think about how you dealt with losing a loved one or a family member recently.

Think about how you deal with adversity daily and how much you rely on the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is the force that moves me each day in my life.

Father Vernon, our Chaplain, is famous for saying that “You have to go through it to get to it.”

In my opinion, what each of us goes through each day, both good and bad, reflects our faith.

Who we call upon when times are both good and bad is only known by us.

As I now have passed six years of journaling five things to be grateful for each day, I know where I am in my faith.

I can look back at those moments when I relied on my faith to get me through both the good and the bad times.

One thing is for sure: life is what you decide to make it.

I believe that you can be the healthiest person in the world, and when it’s your time, it’s your time.

Therefore, the question is, what percent of your faith is tied to your religion?

Knowing that you can’t be 100 percent, because we’re all human and have flaws, take a moment to think about your rating of yourself.

Today, I challenge you to think about yourself as a person of faith as we begin this week.  Take a moment and also reflect on your life and how far you have come to be the person you are today.

“I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. ‘Tis the business of little minds to shrink, but he whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves his conduct, will pursue his principles unto death.”  Thomas Paine

“Even the darkest night will end, and the sun will rise.” – Victor Hugo

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/reflections/

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Artemis 2

The United States of America has plenty to celebrate with the successful return of the Artemis 2 Astronauts to Earth after their ten-day mission.

Artemis 2 astronauts celebrate successful return to Earth | Space photo of the day for April 13, 2026

We should all celebrate the great minds and people who made this mission possible.

I’m reminded of the phrase that you can be anything you want if you put your mind to it.

There is a quote or phrase attributed to the late Rev. Jesse Jackson, saying, “If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, then I know I can achieve it.”

I wonder if the mission pilot Victor Glover, who is the first person of color to fly to the moon, thought those words. We should also keep in mind that NASA did not accept minorities into its astronaut corps until 1978, six years after the last Apollo astronauts launched for the moon.

On the other end of the spectrum was his second mission specialist, Christina Koch, who is the first person to have attended U.S. Space Camp at the U.S. Space & Rocket Center in Huntsville, Alabama, and then fly to the moon.

We can all celebrate their success in life.

Although my youngest grandson attended the U.S. Space Camp® at the U.S. Space & Rocket Center in Huntsville, Alabama, when he was ten or eleven, the impact of sending him to something special during the summer hasn’t fully played out yet.

The next U.S. Space Camp® at the U.S. Space & Rocket Center in Huntsville, Alabama, is scheduled for May 24–29, 2026 (Space Camp Expedition 35).

It’s an investment in the future.

Space Camp | U.S. Space & Rocket Center

Of course, living here in Huntsville, we know why facilities have specific names, such as the Von Braun Center, and why Huntsville is named the “Rocket City.”

History

It’s a humbling experience to understand the history of those who paved the way, such as the German-born American rocket engineer, Wernher von Braun. Dr. von Braun (1912–1977)

Interestingly, there were many other firsts, notably NASA’s Artemis 2 mission, which was the first to launch astronauts toward the moon in more than 50 years.

Moon milestones: A rundown of Artemis 2’s many spaceflight firsts

Not to mention that the Artemis 2 astronauts have also seen parts of the far side of the moon that have never been directly viewed by humans before.

As history was made this past week, only time will tell fifty years from now how all this data will be put together.

I’m sure that both Victor Glover and Christina Koch never saw this moment coming as part of the Artemis 2 astronauts.

Maybe these three quotes will inspire you to look beyond the stars, just as they did.

“Exploration knows no bounds; it’s a journey beyond the stars.” – Neil Armstrong

“In the vastness of dreams, find the courage to reach for galaxies yet unseen.” – Carl Sagan

“Unleash your imagination—sometimes, the extraordinary is just a thought away.” – Stephen Hawking

Today, although you and I didn’t go to the moon, I challenge you to think about what unexpected blessing you didn’t see coming your way that has taken you on a journey out of this world.

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/artemis-2/

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Why Choosing Motivational Speakers in Huntsville, AL Can Inspire Real Change

In today’s fast-paced and often overwhelming world, many individuals find themselves struggling with stress, lack of direction, or low confidence. Whether you are dealing with personal challenges, career uncertainty, or simply looking to improve your mindset, the right guidance can make all the difference. One of the most powerful ways to spark transformation is by learning from experienced professionals who specialize in inspiring change, building resilience, and unlocking potential.

The Power of Professional Motivation

Motivational speakers bring more than just words—they deliver experiences that reshape perspectives. Through real-life stories, practical strategies, and engaging delivery, they help individuals see possibilities they may have overlooked. These professionals are skilled at connecting with audiences on a personal level, making their messages relatable and actionable.

For example, experienced speakers often draw from years of leadership, training, and real-world challenges to deliver impactful sessions. Many, like those featured on McKinley’s Thoughts, combine leadership expertise with coaching techniques to help individuals and teams grow effectively. Their sessions are not only inspiring but also tailored to meet specific needs, ensuring meaningful and lasting results.

Why Personalized Guidance Matters

Not all motivation is created equal. Generic advice may provide temporary inspiration, but personalized guidance creates lasting change. This is why choosing Motivational Speakers in Huntsville, AL can be especially beneficial. Local speakers understand the community, its challenges, and the unique needs of individuals and organizations in the area.

They tailor their message to address real-life concerns—whether it’s workplace stress, personal growth, or overcoming obstacles. By customizing their approach, they ensure that every listener walks away with actionable steps they can apply immediately.

Building Confidence and Resilience

One of the biggest benefits of working with motivational speakers is the boost in confidence and resilience. Many individuals struggle with self-doubt or fear of failure, which can prevent them from reaching their full potential.

Motivational speakers help break these mental barriers by encouraging a positive mindset and teaching practical techniques for overcoming adversity. According to industry insights, these speakers “ignite momentum, challenge complacency, and spark action,” leaving audiences energized and ready to move forward.

This transformation is especially valuable for people dealing with personal setbacks, career transitions, or emotional challenges. With the right guidance, individuals can develop a stronger sense of purpose and direction.

Inspiring Action Through Real-Life Stories

One of the most impactful aspects of motivational speaking is storytelling. Hearing about real-life struggles and successes creates a deeper emotional connection and inspires action.

For instance, many professional speakers have decades of experience helping individuals and organizations transform their lives. They craft messages that resonate deeply, helping audiences elevate their thinking and take meaningful steps toward success.

These stories not only inspire but also provide practical lessons that can be applied in everyday life. Whether it’s improving relationships, achieving career goals, or maintaining a positive outlook, the lessons learned can lead to real and measurable change.

Supporting Mental and Emotional Well-Being

Motivation isn’t just about success—it’s also about well-being. Many people seek guidance to improve their mental and emotional health, especially during challenging times.

Motivational speakers play a crucial role in this area by promoting positivity, self-awareness, and emotional resilience. Their sessions often include techniques for managing stress, building healthy habits, and maintaining a balanced mindset.

Organizations and individuals alike benefit from this holistic approach. In fact, many events featuring Motivational Speakers in Huntsville, AL focus on improving morale, enhancing productivity, and fostering a healthier work or personal environment.

Driving Personal and Professional Growth

Growth is a continuous journey, and having the right support system can accelerate progress. Motivational speakers act as catalysts for change by providing clarity, direction, and encouragement.

They help individuals set realistic goals, develop actionable plans, and stay accountable. This is particularly valuable for those who feel stuck or unsure about their next steps.

In Huntsville, where demand for motivational speakers continues to grow, many individuals and organizations are turning to these professionals for guidance. With thousands of successful engagements and positive feedback, it’s clear that their impact is both significant and lasting.

Why Choose a Trusted Speaking Service

Choosing a reliable and experienced speaking service ensures that you receive high-quality, impactful sessions. Professional speakers bring credibility, proven methods, and a genuine passion for helping others succeed.

Companies offering motivational speaking services focus on delivering tailored programs that address specific challenges and goals. Whether you’re an individual seeking personal growth or an organization aiming to inspire your team, these services provide the tools and support needed to achieve meaningful results.

By working with a trusted provider, you gain access to expert insights, proven strategies, and a supportive environment that encourages growth and transformation.

Take the First Step Toward Transformation

Real change begins with a decision—the decision to grow, improve, and take control of your future. With the right support and guidance, achieving your goals becomes not only possible but also sustainable.

 

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How the Best Public Speakers in Alabama Inspire Teams and Transform Corporate Events

Corporate events are more than just scheduled meetings or conferences—they are opportunities to inspire people, share ideas, and strengthen organizational culture. Whether it’s a leadership summit, team-building workshop, or annual conference, the success of the event often depends on the quality of the speaker delivering the message. Skilled public speakers bring energy, insight, and motivation that can completely transform the atmosphere of an event and leave a lasting impression on attendees.

The Power of Professional Public Speakers in Corporate Events

A corporate event should deliver more than information—it should inspire action. Professional speakers know how to engage audiences through compelling storytelling, clear messaging, and relatable examples. They understand how to capture attention from the beginning of the session and maintain engagement throughout the presentation.

According to insights shared on mckinleysthoughts.com, a well-chosen speaker can energize audiences, reinforce event goals, and turn an ordinary gathering into a meaningful experience that motivates attendees to take action.

Organizations across industries—from corporate businesses to educational institutions and nonprofits—recognize that the right speaker can influence attitudes, encourage innovation, and create a positive shift in workplace culture.

Why Organizations Choose the Best Public Speakers in Alabama

When companies want their events to be impactful, they often turn to the Best Public Speakers in Alabama. These professionals bring expertise, experience, and a deep understanding of how to connect with diverse audiences.

Experienced speakers know that every event has unique goals. Some events focus on leadership development, while others emphasize team motivation, productivity, or organizational growth. The Best Public Speakers in Alabama tailor their presentations to match these objectives, ensuring the message resonates with participants and aligns with the company’s vision.

Their presentations often combine motivational stories, real-world examples, and actionable strategies. This combination not only inspires audiences but also provides practical insights employees and leaders can apply immediately in their work.

Inspiring Teams Through Powerful Storytelling

One of the most effective tools public speakers use is storytelling. People remember stories far more than statistics or slides. Skilled speakers share real experiences, challenges, and lessons learned, making their message relatable and memorable.

These stories encourage employees to reflect on their own goals, challenges, and opportunities for growth. When team members hear how others overcame obstacles and achieved success, they feel motivated to push beyond their limitations.

This emotional connection is one of the reasons why the Best Public Speakers in Alabama are highly sought after for corporate events. Their ability to connect with audiences on a personal level helps employees feel inspired, valued, and ready to contribute to organizational success.

Enhancing Employee Engagement and Motivation

Employee engagement is essential for any successful organization. However, maintaining high levels of motivation can be challenging, especially in fast-paced business environments.

Professional speakers address this challenge by presenting fresh perspectives and encouraging employees to think differently about their roles and responsibilities. Motivational presentations often focus on topics such as leadership development, resilience, teamwork, and personal growth.

These sessions can significantly boost morale within an organization. When employees feel inspired and appreciated, they become more committed to their work and more willing to collaborate with colleagues. As a result, organizations experience improved productivity and stronger workplace relationships.

Transforming Corporate Events into Memorable Experiences

A successful event is one that attendees remember long after it ends. Engaging speakers play a key role in creating those memorable moments.

Public speakers use interactive techniques such as audience participation, thought-provoking questions, and dynamic presentations to keep participants actively involved. Instead of simply listening, attendees become part of the experience.

This level of engagement helps reinforce the event’s message and ensures that participants leave with clear takeaways they can apply in their professional lives. When organizations partner with providers of the Best Public Speakers in Alabama, they gain access to professionals who specialize in creating these impactful experiences.

The Advantage of Working with a Professional Speaker Provider

Choosing the right speaker can be challenging, especially when planning a large corporate event. This is where professional speaker providers play an important role.

A trusted provider helps organizations identify speakers whose expertise aligns with their event goals and audience needs. They offer guidance throughout the planning process, ensuring the presentation theme, tone, and content match the event’s objectives.

Additionally, experienced speakers bring professionalism and reliability to every event. They coordinate with event organizers, understand scheduling requirements, and deliver presentations that meet high standards of quality and effectiveness.

Creating Long-Term Impact for Organizations

The benefits of a powerful presentation extend far beyond the event itself. A truly inspiring talk can influence company culture, strengthen leadership, and motivate employees to pursue new levels of performance.

When teams leave an event feeling energized and aligned with organizational goals, the impact continues in the workplace. Employees become more motivated to collaborate, innovate, and contribute to the company’s success.

Organizations that invest in high-quality speakers often see improved morale, stronger teamwork, and greater enthusiasm across their workforce.

Conclusion

Corporate events are valuable opportunities to inspire employees, strengthen leadership, and align teams with organizational goals. The presence of a dynamic speaker can transform an ordinary gathering into a powerful experience that motivates individuals and drives positive change within the organization.

By partnering with experienced public speaking professionals, companies can ensure their events deliver meaningful messages, energize their teams, and create lasting value for their organizations.

Blog source: https://mckinleysthought.wordpress.com/2026/03/11/how-the-best-public-speakers-in-alabama-inspire-teams-and-transform-corporate-events/

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The Face Behind the Mask

Last Tuesday was Fat Tuesday as many celebrated Mardi Gras in various states, me included.

Having had my share of Mardi Gras celebrations, I often wonder what’s behind the mask as I watch the various people throwing beads from their floats.

Every day, we see people’s various smiles and frowns.

Have you ever wondered what’s behind the masks of the people we run into or come into contact with daily?

I know for sure that there is always someone in a condition worse than we can even imagine as they hold back what’s behind their mask.

It’s just that they are not showing it or providing a way to mask it.

How is it that they can mask their emotions so well?

Today, I’m reflecting on my short visit to a local store to pick up some vitamins.

As I walked in, little did I know that the young pregnant lady would demonstrate what was behind her mask without any courtesy.

I never heard the words “thank you” or any response to my informal greeting in the morning when I walked in as the only customer in the store.

Knowing it wasn’t even 10:30 AM, I can imagine how others are treated with her mask off and her full appearance on display, regardless of her outward appearance.

Our parents tell us at times to put our best face forward; I did my best; however, the clerk or salesperson didn’t seem to care about her facial expressions or about being courteous.

I’m not going to discount or excuse her eight-month appearance and disheveled look, because our attitudes about life are up to us.

In that moment, I knew she had nothing to hide as it was out in the open.

I witnessed another mask this past Friday, February 20, 2026, as the television networks were interrupted by President Trump’s reaction to the U.S. Supreme Court decision.   It was about the policies imposed under the International Emergency Economic Powers Act (IEPPA) being unconstitutional.

I saw his mask slip when the verdict was “does not authorize the President to impose tariffs” and when he defied those who defied him.

‘A Disgrace to Our Nation’: Trump Delivers Blistering Attack on Supreme Court After Tariff Ruling | TIME

https://thehill.com/homenews/administration/5748670-trump-attacks-court-justices/

We also heard about the masks worn by the three Justices, Clarence Thomas, Samuel Alito, and Brett Kavanaugh, who dissented.

These are President Trump’s new heroes, at least this week.

‘Very proud’: Trump lauds ‘new heroes’ Justices Kavanaugh, Thomas and Alito after tariff dissent

I’m sure it’s not over as it was a major blow to the president’s signature economic policy.

Supreme Court strikes down Trump’s tariffs : NPR

For some, there is no need to wear a mask because we see the true colors every time we meet them.

I’m reminded that there is a specific amount of tact we should all employ, regardless of the masks we wear.

Foreign reaction among 4 issues to watch after tariff ruling

We’ll all have to wait and see how the messaging will change when President Donald Trump delivers his 2026 State of the Union address to a joint session of Congress on Tuesday, February 24, 2026, beginning at 9 PM ET.

Maybe we’ll hear about what language is the President reading in “Section 122.”

What Is Section 122? A Rare Trade Law That’s Donald Trump’s Latest Weapon In Tariff Arsenal | Explainers News – News18

Therefore, put on your Be Patient Masks!

This week, I’m reminded of a specific Bible verse as we begin Lent.  For those who read the Bible and observe Lent as part of fasting, it’s Matthew 6:16. Take a moment to decide whether the mask you are wearing is telling others who you really are or who you are not.

“When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show others they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.” – Matthew 6:16

I’ll close today’s thoughts with these three quotes:

“We understand how dangerous a mask can be. We all become what we pretend to be.” — Patrick Rothfuss.

“Sometimes it’s not the people who change, it’s the mask that falls off.” — James Baldwin.

“Choose your self-presentations carefully, for what starts out as a mask may become your face.” — Erving Goffman.

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/the-face-behind-the-mask/

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Grief is like Glitter

Today, my thoughts are with the grief we continue to witness in Minnesota.

I reflect on the recent story about Alex Pretti, the 37-year-old intensive care unit nurse at the Minneapolis VA Hospital, who was killed by a federal border patrol agent near his home in Minneapolis last month.   My prayers and thoughts immediately went to both this country and the people of Minneapolis.

Health care community mourns Alex Pretti, the VA nurse killed Saturday by federal agent | MPR News

Minneapolis has been through so much in the past five years, starting with the murder of George Floyd.

Sometimes I try to understand what lesson we can learn from all of this.

Minneapolis Five Years Later – City of Minneapolis

Grief has become infrastructure in Minneapolis, a city mobilized by trauma | CNN

Maybe the real question is “What is the lesson that we can learn from all of this as it relates to watershed moments that we continue to relive?”

Watershed Moment – Meaning, Origin and Usage – English-Grammar-Lessons.com

There is a quote that says, “Grief is like glitter.  You can throw a handful of it in the air, but when you try to clean it up, you will never get it all.  Even long after the event, you will still find glitter tucked in the corners.  It will always be there…. somewhere.”

I’m aware that grief in all its stages is a process, according to Dr. Kübler-Ross, who spent her career studying the dying process and the impact of death on survivors.

5 Stages of Grief: The Kübler-Ross Model

This past Wednesday evening, at one of my Toastmasters meetings, I told a story about several people in my life who, to me, have died within the last five years.

What I didn’t realize then, during the speech, was that my grief was like glitter. When you try to clean it up, you will never get it all.

Although I have peace in my heart, I continue to carry that legacy of their love.  I have learned that telling stories in both positive and negative forms is a reminder of the glitter.

We all have those moments years after someone we loved has left this physical world.

I also thought about all the recipes that have been passed on to me by several people in my life, who have been a blessing to me.

Then, on this past Saturday, while attending Mass, my mind went to each time we attend Mass, when we pray for those who are no longer with us.  It was at that moment when I heard the person’s name being called and remembered seeing him at Mass the two weeks before he died.

There is so much that I could write about grief.

My final thought is remembering Ms. Shirley Raines.  I’m sure there is plenty of glitter she has left based on her role.

“Ms. Shirley dedicated her life to serving others and made an immeasurable impact on homeless communities throughout Los Angeles and Nevada. Through her tireless advocacy, deep compassion, and unwavering commitment, she used her powerful media platform to amplify the voices of those in need and to bring dignity, resources, and hope to some of the most underserved populations.”

How did Shirley Raines die? Updates on Ms. Shirley’s cause of death

I’ll leave you with this final thought about the “Beatitudes.”

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For all those we have lost in life, their lives have been blessed by blessing others.  The world’s culture is rapidly changing; however, it’s up to us to keep blessing others.

May the repose of souls that have deeply departed rest in peace. Grant us the peace that surpasses all understanding and let Your gentle spirit refresh our hearts.

“What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” ~ Helen Keller

Therefore, this week continues to be a blessing to others.  You should know that “Grief is like glitter.”  “You can throw a handful of it in the air, but when you try to clean it up, you will never get it all.”

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/grief-is-like-glitter/

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