Knowledge and Wisdom

I have written about wisdom before; however, the question is: what do knowledge and wisdom mean to you?

Today, with the introduction of Artificial Intelligence (AI) becoming more prevalent, what does wisdom mean to you?

What is each one of us doing to increase it and learn from the wisdom of others?

Some of it is a knowledge transfer to our youth for those who want to listen.

Some of it is being poured into by others attending conferences and learning new things we did not know.

For all practical purposes, let’s use the word metacognition.  Merriam-Webster defines it as “The awareness or analysis of one’s own learning or thinking processes.”

METACOGNITION Definition & Meaning – Merriam-Webster

As a lifelong learner, I’m still working every day to acquire new information I was either numb to or didn’t know existed.

We are all an open book.  “When we live our life as if it is an open book, we are free in body, mind, and spirit and allow anyone to read from our pages.” — Unknown

I remember hearing a homily about being a “Living Letter.”

It’s something that I strive to be as I share my knowledge and wisdom with others.

2 Corinthians 4: Living Letters | Ken Boa Reflections

Part of what I have learned over the last three years is a deeper understanding of both my faith and the wisdom packed within the Bible.

I don’t profess to be a Bible scholar by any means; however, what I know today is light-years ahead of what I knew three years ago.

Sometimes we must be intentional in learning more, and that is what I have done over the last three years.

If you have ever read “The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz and Janet Mills,” it’s this wisdom that I continue to learn and dream from as I search for new knowledge and wisdom.

Many of us discriminate against what we want to learn and dream about, or against what we perceive as worth knowing.

Although my parents are no longer on this earth, the life lessons they imparted to me are and remain a powerful insight into who I am today.

It’s that wisdom and knowledge that make me who I am.

Each of us has the freedom to learn once we leave the house as we strike out in our adult lives.

To me, there is so much we can learn from the wisdom that is yet unknown or untapped.

Years ago, I converted to Catholicism and found myself with the wisdom to understand the word “judgment”.

It’s within the specific word that I found out about the poison we put on others and ourselves.

It’s poison when we judge others and feel the need to judge them.

Today, the wisdom and knowledge of understanding that being a living letter is not about judging others and reading have helped take my wisdom to another level.

My question to you is: how has your search for knowledge and wisdom turned out, and what does it mean to you?

I’m well aware that each of us has blind spots we can’t see, yet what do others see in you when they ask for your opinion on something?

I’ll close with a specific reminder that stays with me when I’m attending any social or conference event and talking with people for the first time.

It’s having the wisdom to speak on any topic, or at least to know something about it, as a sign of being well-read.

Although I don’t profess to be a know-it-all, growing up, some adults would tell me, “I’ve forgotten more than you know,” which was a driving factor in learning more than the person I was speaking to.

When I hear those words, it’s a reminder that there is more to learn.

Marcus Aurelius consistently stressed virtues like self-control, patience, fortitude, and wisdom.

“Knowledge alone is not power; it becomes power only when applied effectively through action, judgment, and influence.”

Knowledge Is Not Power | Conversational Leadership

Today, I challenge you to consider what knowledge and wisdom mean to you. Are you passing it on to the next generation, or are you just living and allowing your wisdom to shrink or atrophy?

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/knowledge-and-wisdom/

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Building Character

Today, please take a moment and think about all the people you know who are risk-takers.

We see them all the time in our daily lives; just like the person I saw this past week running a red light when the light was solid red while the green light was moving traffic in another direction.

Every day, we see wrecker service trucks picking up wrecked cars on our streets and highways.

In some of these wrecks, given the direction the vehicle was traveling, I must wonder how the car managed to cross the street or move through traffic.

Just this week, I witnessed a motorcycle rider weaving through traffic, putting himself at risk by crossing in front of an 18-wheeler.

I continue to see people texting while driving, which is distracting.

At times, I see muscle cars showing off, saying, “Look at me.”

Ironically, I was in Walgreens when I heard a young man on the phone talking about getting a ticket after just finishing a driver’s course.  When I walked out, he was pulling off in his Mustang, which somewhat explains his dilemma.

Sometimes the cars we drive can be magnets for tickets; however, it doesn’t always have to be.

Granted, every day we take chances and must always be cognizant of our surroundings when we leave our homes.

It doesn’t always have to be with traffic, as I’m leery of the foods I eat and what they do to my digestive system.

I’ve learned that the older we get, the more we must eat the right foods.

Over the years, I’m reminded of my resiliency training and the importance of leaving early so I don’t have to rush to my appointments.

Therefore, today, what is it that makes us take risks?

Do you see yourself as a risk-taker or someone who prefers to err on the side of caution and avoid taking risks?

Years ago, I learned the word “Timorous” while facing my fear of jumping out of airplanes in the military.  I was injured during a high-altitude entanglement and returned to jump status a few years later.

TIMOROUS Definition & Meaning – Merriam-Webster

However, I’m not advocating that you do what I’ve done, because there is a process of adjusting our mindset to do anything we put our minds to.

Back then, we called it “building character” whenever we jumped out of an airplane or a helicopter.

What I am advocating is that the character we build is important.

For me, it is almost in the same category as hearing the words “No risk, no rewards.”

Plainly stated, “No risk, no rewards” means you must take chances or step outside your comfort zone to achieve meaningful gains, success, or growth.

Many of us have stepped outside our comfort zones in training for 10K runs or marathons.

I’ve only run three marathons in my life, and that was enough.

Even the squirrel we see in our backyards is taking a risk when it leaves the nest.

I saw one on the road the other day trying to cross the street and then turn back.

We are sometimes like squirrels, turning back to avoid the traffic.

On the other hand, we see those who like, or feel the need to, show off when we have a fast car.

Which is not how to build character.

We don’t need to run red lights if we plan and arrive 10 minutes early for our appointments.

We do not need to risk weaving in and out of traffic, putting other people in danger.

As we look at the people around us, we can surmise, or at least tell from their character, the type of person they are.

Not to judge; however, when I see a person who is “Timorous” and has never served in combat or the military, that person is not who I want watching my back if I’m stranded alone on an island.

Each of us has built a specific amount of character that is on display every day.

We hear it in the language people use and how they stand.

Although you may be timid, careful, or reluctant to go into combat or jump out of a perfectly good airplane, are you one who takes risks at the cost of others?

I’m not naïve; I know that sometimes worldly attributes can cloud our judgment.

Today is about having the proper character on display so that others see the good in you!

One of my favorite quotes is by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”

Measure of a Man, The | The Martin Luther King, Jr. Research and Education Institute

Today, I challenge you to do a pulse check.  What are you being measured on each day as you live your life?  When was the last time you looked at your character?

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/building-character/

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Introspection

Have you ever wondered why woodpeckers don’t get headaches?

I heard something interesting this week that caught my attention, and I decided to write about it.

Before I get too deep, I believe you need to know the answer to that question.

Why Don’t Woodpeckers Get Headaches? | Ask A Biologist

Today, I’m blessed to know I rarely have headaches.

Even in those moments of giving up coffee for Lent.

I’m aware that some are not as fortunate as I am, as today we live in a society where so many people are affected by migraine headaches.

We visit our doctors for appointments, and they ask, “What are you allergic to?”

So today is about introspection.

INTROSPECTION Definition & Meaning – Merriam-Webster

When was the last time you took time to reflect, looking inward by examining your thoughts and feelings?

It was a reminder to me when I heard the woodpecker question, as something I had never thought about before I heard it.

There are things we take for granted: that the tree will bloom again after the hard winter’s weather and flowers will spring forward at just the right time.

We are all uniquely and wonderfully made, with various qualities and tolerances.

As a lifelong learner, I am fascinated by the prospect of learning something new.

This past Wednesday, at one of my Toastmasters meetings (Professional Speakers), Sara Ivie, DTM, told a story about the people of Gander who sheltered over 6,500 people during 9/11. It was a story I had never heard before, and it led me to greater introspection.

We all know what happened on September 11, 2001, when al-Qaeda terrorists hijacked four planes, crashing two into the World Trade Center, one into the Pentagon, and one in Pennsylvania, killing nearly 3,000 people and triggering the U.S. “War on Terror.”

But what I didn’t know, or had forgotten, was how long the airspace was shut down and the exact locations where planes were redirected or diverted to land.

How Gander, Newfoundland Took In 6,500 People On 9/11

“There were roughly 4,500 planes in the air at the time, and 38 of them landed in the rural Canadian town of Gander, according to the 9/11 Memorial and Museum.”

It’s a story of hospitality that is so much needed in our current history today.

The Canadian town of Gander is still remembering its efforts as it recently celebrated the 25^th Anniversary of 9/11.

Town of Gander to Mark 25th anniversary of 9/11  – NTV: Newfoundland and Labrador’s Most Trusted News Source

Nowadays, everyone has something to say; however, it’s up to us to listen and reflect on what they say.

Many iconic figures have addressed this theme directly or indirectly. Here are some notable ones:

“The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about.” — Oscar Wilde (reflecting on the inevitability of opinions)

“People always have something to say, but rarely do they say it with kindness.” — Maya Angelou (emphasizing compassion in discourse)

“Everyone has an opinion, and they’re usually wrong.” — Mark Twain (a humorous take on human judgment)

Today, I challenge you to reflect on what has caught your attention this week and prompted introspection as you search for answers.

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/introspection/

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Subliminal Messages

This week, something caught my attention while watching television.

It was more negative advice from a political point of view.

We all have various words we have learned over time that we know exactly who’s saying them when we hear them.

One is “Drain the Swamp” commercials.

I often wonder what people are thinking or feeling when they hear that word and what their reactions might be if they understand politics.

To me, it’s just like someone saying the “N” Word.

When I hear it from someone not from my race, then I know the context behind their words.

I don’t like it, especially if I know the context behind it.

When we hear the word “Woke,” we have to decide and know who’s saying it and what they are conveying to us.

As much as I try to stay neutral or non-partisan, something seems to trigger an uncomfortable feeling that Rodney King would say.  “Can’t we all just get along?”

As I walked into Walmart this weekend, it was my second time seeing a shopper with a gun strapped to his hip.

I had to ask myself what message he was sending to other shoppers who walked past him as he and his wife shopped.

Then, on the other hand, I had to stop and ask myself another question: why?

Why did he decide today to strap on his pistol to go shopping, Walmart of all places?

Was it a comfort factor?

Did he need to feel bigger, or was he making a point?

Every day we get messages with people even saying one word.

Because I am somewhat naïve about the gun-carrying law in Alabama and Georgia, I checked the rules to support this blog.

I know that “Alabama residents can legally carry firearms in Georgia under Georgia’s constitutional carry law or with a recognized out-of-state permit.”

What this means is “an Alabama resident does not need a Georgia Weapons Carry License (WCL) to carry a handgun in Georgia, either openly or concealed, provided they meet Georgia’s age and eligibility requirements (21+ for civilians, 18+ for active military).”

I bring that to your attention because Georgia was where I first witnessed the Georgia Weapons Carry License (WCL).

Alabama Concealed Carry Gun Laws: CCW & Reciprocity Map | USCCA

Alabama Gun Laws and Regulations

What I didn’t know until today was that “Alabama is considered an ‘open carry’ state, which means that most adults may openly carry a firearm without a permit. ” As of January 1, 2023, Alabama no longer requires permits for concealed carry, making the state a permitless or constitutional carry state. (Individuals may still get permits if they want to take advantage of reciprocity offered in other states.)

Although there is a long list of places in Alabama where carrying a gun is illegal, without express permission from the authority in charge.

Therefore, what subliminal messages are you receiving or seeing today that have required you to pause just for a moment?

I’ll give you a moment to think about it.

Even in this ridiculous world we live in, I know that sometimes our faith is all that is required to get past the subliminal message we take in.

“Sometimes we need the salt of tears to remind us how to savor the sweetness of life.” ~ Lysa TerKeurst

“The things surrounding you in your home serve as subliminal reminders of you who are.”  ~ Denise Linn

Today, I challenge you to take a moment to reflect on the subliminal messages you are receiving or seeing today that have required you to pause.

 

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/subliminal-messages/

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Are Teachers Teaching Your Children How to Fish?

Ever since the pandemic in 2020, I have had continuous thoughts about Are Teachers Teaching Your Children How to Fish?

My youngest grandson was affected during his senior year in High School, as I witnessed what was happening from High School to College.

Although he has graduated from college, I often wonder about how the education system is being challenged while the administration is dismantling various parts of it.

The Plan to Abolish the Education Department—One Year Later | NEA

Bills axing the Education Department introduced by GOP lawmakers

I have personally visited the Board of Education before the pandemic and am thinking very hard about seeing them again to get a better understanding.

One piece of advice that I received is to understand which schools are invested in getting their teachers National Board Certified.

I’m aware that there are “Five Core Propositions” that describe what teachers should know and be able to do.

Proposition 1: Teachers are committed to students and their learning.

Proposition 2: Teachers know the subjects they teach and how to teach those subjects to students.

Proposition 3: Teachers are responsible for managing and monitoring student learning.

Proposition 4: Teachers think systematically about their practice and learn from experience

Proposition 5: Teachers are members of learning communities

The National Board certification process is designed to collect standards-based evidence of accomplished practice. In all 25 certificate areas, candidates are required to complete four components.

COMPONENT 1: Content Knowledge.

COMPONENT 2: Differentiation in Instruction.

COMPONENT 3: Teaching Practice and Learning Environment.

COMPONENT 4: Effective and Reflective Practitioner.

Maybe it’s because I have a master’s in education with a concentration on Instructional Technology that all this bothers me when it comes to education.

I always get a kick out of watching kids work at the cash register when pennies were in use or when the machine was out of order.  Many of them could not add or subtract without pulling out their phones for assistance.

It is the dismantling of the education system that sends the message about what is being taught in our schools these days.

When I look at the credentials of various people running our country, one has to think why they were chosen for the job.

Suffice to say, in the end, what cost will all of us pay for how this country is being run, or those affected, for making poor decisions?

Do you remember the words of the three R’s in Education and Learning

The 3 R’s of Education: Reading, Writing &Arithmetic

The phrase 3 R’s of Education encompasses:

Reading: the ability to decode text, comprehend meaning and engage with ideas.

Writing: the ability to express thoughts, structure ideas and communicate effectively.

Arithmetic: the ability to understand numbers, operations and problem-solve in everyday life.

We need all 3 R’s today in our society, as reading is a daily habit for me.

When I think of how people communicate and what I went through with all the various research papers I wrote without the use of AI, it is unbelievable.

Finally, as I sit on various boards, being able to understand the finances and numbers and manage funds is so important.

It’s this foundation I believe we all see continues to be weakened with no voices being heard to protect it.

Interestingly enough, families will move into neighborhoods that support a great school system; however, are they engaged in what is being taught to their children as they pay the costs of living in that area?

In a recent article online from AL.com, “Many Alabama virtual school students lack basic math and reading skills, report cards show.”

https://www.al.com/news/2026/08/many-alabama-virtual-school-students-lack-basic-math-and-reading-skills-report-cards-show.html

That alone signals trouble to me.

It’s already bad enough that Alabama is ranked 43^rd in the public-school ranking by state for 2026 as we begin to start another school year this week.

https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/public-school-rankings-by-state

Therefore, the question is: Are teachers teaching your children how to fish or just helping them bait the hook?

Today, I challenge you to think about whether teachers are teaching your children how to fish or just helping bait the hook.

Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day.  Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime. Proverbs

Blog source: https://mckinleysthoughts.com/are-teachers-teaching-your-children-how-to-fish/

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Why Local Businesses Near Huntsville Trust McKinley's Thoughts for Leadership Training

You can tell within five minutes of a meeting whether a team has a real leader or just someone with a title. That gap is what pulls most business owners into looking for help in the first place. In and around Huntsville, a lot of that search ends at McKinley's Thoughts, a program built by a retired Command Sergeant Major who spent 30 years leading soldiers before turning that experience toward local businesses.

What Leadership Training Actually Is

Forget the image of a rented conference room and a slideshow nobody remembers by Friday. Real leadership training is coaching people through the stuff that actually trips them up at work: hard conversations, missed deadlines, a team that's stopped trusting each other. It's less about theory and more about giving someone tools they'll still be using six months later.

Why It Matters More Than Most Owners Realize

Huntsville's economy runs on defense, aerospace, and a growing wave of small businesses trying to keep good people. And good people don't leave jobs, they leave bad managers. That's usually the moment a business starts typing "leadership training near me" into Google at 9pm after a rough week. What they're really looking for is someone who's actually led people under pressure, not a certificate mill. That's the whole reason McKinley's Thoughts exists: three decades of active-duty command experience, paired with certified John Maxwell coaching, applied to real teams instead of hypothetical ones.

How It Actually Works

There's no one-size-fits-all package here. A first conversation is spent figuring out what's actually going wrong: Is it a communication breakdown? A new manager who's never led anyone before? A team that's technically skilled but falls apart under stress? From there, the training gets built around that specific problem using modules like Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intelligence, or Strategic Planning, whichever fits.

The Process, Step by Step

1. A real conversation first — no sales pitch, just an honest look at where the leadership gaps are.
2. A curriculum built around your team, not a generic template pulled off a shelf.
3. Workshops that involve people doing the work, not sitting and listening for two hours.
4. Time between sessions to actually try things, because skills stick when they're practiced, not just discussed.
5. Coaching that continues after the workshop ends, so the lessons don't fade in a month.
6. Honest tracking of what's changed — better communication, fewer blowups, faster decisions.

What Actually Works

Get leadership at every level in the room, not just the managers who already agree with you. Pick a trainer who's actually led people, not just studied leadership theory. Treat this as something you keep doing, not something you check off a list once a year. And pair the group sessions with one-on-one coaching wherever you can; it's where the real breakthroughs happen.

Where Most Companies Go Wrong

The biggest mistake is buying a generic seminar because it was cheap or convenient, then wondering why nothing changed. A close second is treating training like a one-time event instead of an ongoing relationship. And a lot of companies pick trainers purely on credentials, without asking whether that person has actually led anyone through a hard moment. That's usually what separates a forgettable seminar from a company that finally finds leadership training near me and sticks with it for years, because the person leading it has actually been in the room when things went sideways.

Conclusion

Nobody becomes a better leader from one workshop. It happens through repetition, honest feedback, and someone who's actually done the job pushing you to get better. That's the difference between training that looks good on a calendar invite and training that changes how your team actually works.

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FAQs

What are the 7 C's of leadership? Character, Competence, Communication, Commitment, Confidence, Courage, and Compassion. They're not abstract ideas either — a leader missing even one of these usually shows it fast, whether it's broken trust or a team that stops speaking up.

Why do you want to attend leadership training? Honestly, most people attend because they hit a wall — a promotion they weren't ready for, a team that's not listening, or a conflict they don't know how to handle. Training gives you the tools so the next wall doesn't stop you.

What are the 5 P's of effective leadership? Purpose, Passion, People, Process, and Performance. Miss any one of these and the others start to wobble — passion without process burns out, process without people feels cold.

What are the seven qualities of a good leader? Integrity, self-awareness, courage, respect, empathy, gratitude, and resilience. None of these are talents you're born with. They're built, usually the hard way.

What are the 8 pillars of leadership? Vision, communication, integrity, accountability, empowerment, adaptability, decision-making, and emotional intelligence. Most leaders are strong in two or three and weak in the rest — training is about finding out which ones need work.

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Accountability Partners

Career Planning Concept. Businessman Getting Help Building Bridges To Success.

During my time in the military, we had something called the buddy system, where two individuals always knew each other’s whereabouts, both mentally and physically.

Today, as adults, we sometimes need a buddy system not just for our whereabouts, both mentally and physically, but also for someone to bounce an idea off that we’re thinking about in life.

In recent years, I’ve had the opportunity to participate in two Maxwell Leadership Accountability sessions that last, I believe, 90 days each.

Each one of those accountability sessions was where we met each week for an hour to discuss various things we were working on.

It was a commitment within the group to be accountable to each other.  Although we had three people within our group, it was probably the most meaningful weekly conversation I’ve experienced.

We are all undisciplined in various areas of our lives, whether we know it or not.

As John Maxwell says, “Accountability makes us better.”

Sometimes we need to recognize there are gaps in our lives that need help closing.  What gap do you need closing today?

Accountability Makes You Better | Maxwell Leadership

There is also a word called self-accountability.

Meaning taking responsibility for our own actions.

We should all take notice that having the proper mindset is so important.

I can vividly remember my Saturday morning 5- to 10-mile runs with two or three running buddies years ago. Especially during my time in the military when I was stationed in Hawaii and Fort Bragg.

Back in those days, you were required to run four miles within 32 minutes.

It paid off for me when I went to Airborne and Air Assault school during my time in Hawaii from1985-1989.

I didn’t hurt knowing I was already in great shape from being a Drill Sergeant for three years prior, 1982-1985.

I knew if I didn’t show up, they wouldn’t call me out because back then no one carried phones to go running.

That’s why our words must matter along with the proper mindset.

How we speak to ourselves is so important, which is tied to our purpose.

Having the proper mindset is so important.

If you haven’t read Carol S. Dweck’s book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, I would highly recommend it.

Dweck’s Mindset Theory: How to Develop a Growth Mindset – Growth Engineering

For those who have accountability partners, continue to tap into each other for support.

For those who don’t have accountability partners, I pray that you pick some who will help hold you accountable.

Try it; you might like it.

This week, as you look at your busy schedule, think about those who are holding you accountable.

Sometimes procrastination can get the best of us, myself included.

Although my running days are over, I still hold myself accountable for my weight and appearance.

Today, I challenge you to think about who’s holding you accountable when no one else is. Think about the last time you were held accountable for your actions or just doing something you said you would do?

We are all aware that life sometimes gets in the way, and sometimes we need to be like the Nike slogan and “Just do it!”

“Your life does not get better by chance; it gets better by change.”~ Jim Rohn

“The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you can change anything in your life.” ~ Hal Elrod

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