
This past weekend I thought about seeds, but not just any type of seeds. It was seeds of grace.
I was inspired last weekend while in Louisiana to learn how sugarcane is planted by a gentleman who is the father of one of my good friends.
There is something special about sugar cane when people chew it and they chew it for a reason. I’ve never chewed sugar cane and maybe during my next visit if the harvest is right and I’m offered an opportunity to taste a piece I’ll try it.
I’m sure my Dentist would tell me to pass on it to protect my teeth, but I’m placing it on my bucket list.
The father also happens to be the last surviving sibling from his family with one son, his only child, to carry his name’s sake.
As I visited the property, he maintained a small garden in a big area to maintain. He told me it takes about three hours to cut the grass to give you an idea of how large of an area we are talking about as it relates to his property. He has all the toys by the way to maintain that property.
His property has been in his generation for years. You know it when you see streets or roads named after the family name.
Nevertheless, regardless of the size of his garden, it was maintained through seeds of grace and weather conditions.
I also had a chance to see okra plants growing on my friend’s cousin’s property, once again handed down from generation to generation as his cousin gave me another lesson on planting this time it was about how okra is planted.
Two years ago, I was able to walk and ride to the property and knew where his father was living and where my friend’s grandfather and his father owned land that now has the children of their descendants living on it.
It was seeds of grace planted deep in the roots of family tradition to maintain such land and keep it in the family name.
In both situations, I learned about the importance of planting around the moon.
Maybe you were like me and planted something and some plants sprouted just right and others didn’t.
Just like the plants that are allowed to grow, we are allowed to grow.
Sometimes the lives of those we love are cut short, but it was various seeds of grace our parents and those around us who deposited them within us before they were called by God.
Our hearts go out to family and friends when we hear about the sudden loss of someone close to us, especially when we didn’t know it would be our last time seeing that person.
As I continue to grow older, I have learned that it is not about how much money you have, how big your home is, or the cars you drive.
Sometimes we must take note of how our lives are treating us and see our life in retrospect, by figuring out what we were doing years ago that prepared us for moments like these.
Last week at my Toastmasters meeting I spoke of “Turning Points” and only had to reflect on 1998 when I had a turning point in my life with seeds of grace being deposited for me.
It’s those little deposits of seeds of grace within our lives where we can see kindness in others and determine the path that we want to take in life from past lessons.
I truly treasure great company and that feeling of family as well. Not always do I get to have weekends whereas seeds of grace are deposited in me.
Especially, when I am laughing and enjoying the company around me.
As I reflect on a speech that a member of my Toastmasters club gave about friends and my recent blogs I wrote about “Friends” and “Great Friends;” there was a connection when she spoke about having friends for over 40 plus years.
I can imagine all the seeds of grace that they deposited on each other over the years.
I also remember very clearly when I went on a Men’s Retreat over ten years ago, with all the seeds of grace deposited on me, and how I felt after a weekend of fellowship with men sharing the same faith.
Sometimes the various seeds of grace have been deposited by our ancestors through the prayers of those before we were even born. (Great-Great Grandfathers and Great-Great Grandmothers and the generations before them.)
I know my wife’s mother has a list she prays every day before going to bed which takes about two hours. It’s those seeds of grace that continue to be deposited daily.
Last Saturday, I had the opportunity to bring Holy Communion to my 103-year-old Brother Knight who will turn 104 in the first week of August. I know he is praying for me just like I am praying for him. I have been bringing Holy Communion since he was 100 years old.
As I close, I’m thinking of Pentecost Sunday, which was celebrated yesterday, and the commemoration of the outpouring of the Holy Spirit upon the early disciples of Jesus Christ and their opportunity to be in Jesus’ presence and how their seeds of grace continue over 2000 years.
The book of Acts says it was “Poured out on all flesh.” (Acts 2:17)
Acts 2:17 In the last days, God says, I will pour out My Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams.
Today, on this day those same feelings of seeds of grace continue to resonate with me as I get an opportunity to share my faith with my friends.
It’s those lessons that have been deposited within me that I get to share with others, while also practicing humbleness and humility knowing that I don’t always have the answer.
That’s where the humility of knowing that even though we don’t know the answer we can continue to look in various places or people and find it.
I’ll close by saying this, the parents of my good friend that I was able to visit in Louisiana last month have sown many seeds of grace within their community and family. They have also deposited seeds of grace on me in ways that I can’t explain or describe fully with words.
As I continue to learn various things in life, one thing for sure is I welcome the seeds of grace that are in my life.
Today, I challenge you to think about what seeds of grace have been deposited in you and how you are replanting or returning those seeds of grace in others.
I’ll leave you with two quotes:
“You should never try to be better than someone else, you should always be learning from others. But you should never cease trying to be the best you could be because that’s under your control and the other isn’t.” ~John Wooden
“If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it.” ~Margaret Fuller